Child Abuse Prevention Month: Physical Grooming
April is Child Abuse Prevention Month: Physical Grooming is the process of desensitizing a child through increasing levels of closeness. It could progress from a wave, to a hug, or to sharing a chair. The predator seeks out activities to do alone with the child to the exclusion of other adults. This type of behavior transitions seamlessly into Psychological Grooming. The predator shows the child favoritism and often extolls of their “special relationship.” The predator will reward the child with privileges and gifts without permission and encourage them to keep it a secret. They push boundaries by exposing the child to “adult stuff” like profanity, telling dirty jokes or alcohol. This can progress to talking about sexual topics and viewing pornography. All these things, because the child knows they are wrong, make the child feel guilty and complicit. Those feelings can paralyze a child from disclosing abuse.
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